Apr 24, 2009

What is Love ? I Don’t Know !

Love is lots of things to me.

I can go on and on about how different people may interpret ‘love’ as.

I can tell you all the different definitions you may find online and stories about how love  “should be” like.

There is no singular explanation for ‘love’ because it is a special feeling deep within us, one that makes your heart flutters and yearns for more.

It has something to do with everything when it comes to ‘love’ and the only thing that matters is really just the two people who are in love with each other.

I happened to come across this old song by Joni Mitchell, “Both Sides Now” and I liked this part of the lyrics most :

I’ve looked at love from both sides now,
From give and take, and still somehow
It’s love’s illusions I recall.
I really don’t know love at all

I can’t say I am a love guru but I have seen happy stories and way too many heartbreaks since I first came across ‘love’.

I believe that there is no such thing as “Mr Perfect” or “The One” out there but that doesn’t mean you can’t find that special someone in your life.

Of course, I’m still at an age that I can’t possibly declare now that the boyfriend is the one I want to spend my entire life with (even though I do want to, haha)

If you ask me “So is this the true love you’ve been waiting for ?” – I honestly don’t know and there’s no way I can tell you the answer.

But he is someone special to me. I may not know how ‘love’ should be like but I think as long as the two people are comfortable with each other and have a certain level of trust and love between them – that’s all it takes to keep the relationship going. (Of course, communication is really important)

I think I have been reading too many relationship-related books lately,  just finished “He’s just not that into you” ! Will review it soon Mean

Actually what triggered this post was thanks to the boyfriend, was quite a sweet surprise to see him at my voiddeck today Heart Especially when he stays at the other end of the world is not exactly an ‘Eastsider’ like me. (and I was late for at least half an hour..haha)

These are the small things in life that makes a difference, and how special love can be.

It is the thought that counts (as cliche as it sounds) but it’s true. Really! Try it on someone you love =)

P.S : No, this is not a mushy post ! I just want to share how people can keep a relationship going strong ! Grin

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  • Your boyfriend learns well from his master… *ahem*

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  • Hey!! Thye Chuan here!

    Was searching for G60 photos on google and I came across your website!

    Your post about the social media event caught my attention.

    I’m actually interested in attending networking and marketing related events.

    Is it possible for you to keep me posted of any events that you know of?

    You mentioned that day at the Alumni Night that my namecard doesn’t tell you much about what am I doing?

    Contact me and I’m sure we can find out more about each other Smile

  • @Krisandro: I’m doubling your fee.

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  • @krisandro : LOL ! You better teach him better tactics then !

    @Razlan : Thanks ! I love tumblr, always have good stuff to share =)

    @Daryl : Tsk..you watch out ! *rubs hands*

  • @Thye Chuan : Hi there ! Will keep you updated (via tweets?) if I know of any =) Thanks for dropping by ! (psst..I removed all your personal contact information by the way..I have your card with me ! No worries.)

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